One of my clients shared this week how angry she gets when she and her husband have a specific argument and he doesn’t respond the way she thinks he should. Like, hi, what a jerk. Today it hit her that he IS responding and he’s responding EXACTLY the way he SHOULD respond. She was the one who wasn’t bringing anything helpful to the table. That was pretty mind-blowing for her seeing as how they’ve been married for 10+ years and this is a persistent argument. “It’s about time I figured this out,” she said.
I’m here to tell you that there is *no wrong time* for a revelation. I’ve had stuff I was SO SURE ABOUT that took me 1, 3, 4, even 15+ years to figure out, not even kidding. (The short version: Turns out I was the asshole. Whoops.) It’s not “late” just because it took a while. It takes how long it takes, and once it happens you’ll have it forever. You never know what’s going to shift your perspective in exactly the right way to show you something you didn’t even know you were missing.
If life feels like Groundhog Day, maybe it’s time for a new set of eyes. I’m on a mission to support 100 people in the next 100 days through powerful professional conversations focused on clarity and transformation. Book a free clarity call for yourself here: http://tinyurl.com/altitudeadjustmentintro (or share the link with a friend)
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