
Just because the dog barks doesn’t mean a murderer is breaking in. Sometimes dogs just bark.
Just like sometimes kids just cry.
Just like sometimes partners are just grumpy.
Just like sometimes coworkers are just irritable.
Just like sometimes your brain just gets carried away down some path that’s not helpful.
None of these things actually have to mean anything is wrong, so more often than not, no action required. But so often we panic, we try to fix, we get bark-y, cry-y, annoyed, and carried away too, because we’re uncomfortable and we feel like we need to do something to Stop The Thing That Is Wrong.
It’s okay to just let the thing happen and not try to fix it. Because a lot of the time, there’s nothing to fix. There’s just something to get through and it’s okay. And if there IS something to fix, when your brain is freaking out probably isn’t the best time to tackle it.
Instead let’s tackle it when your brain is calm so you’re ready for next time. A huge part of what I do as a coach is help people figure out the patterns that aren’t working in their life and create new ones. Patterns like fixing when nothing needs fixing. Patterns like getting super agitate when there’s nothing to fix. Patterns like looking for what’s wrong all the time. You name a pattern you don’t love, we can find one that works better and help you set it up in your life.
If that sounds good to you, we should talk. I get people unstuck—and out of patterns they hate—so they can live their life authentically, powerfully, and unapologetically. And you deserve that. So let’s make it happen. Contact me to book your clarity call.








